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Michelle is lightly snoring next to me... It makes me wish that I could fall asleep, but I know that I can't. I rarely sleep at night, and I took a nap earlier.
I've been looking up stuff about marriage and adoption, but it's starting to make my head hurt, so I thought that I would take a break for a bit.
We have to have 2 witnesses to go with us to Canada, so that will take a bit, because it has to be during the week. My mom has about 10 days off in the middle of November, so perhaps then? And then, on top of it all, it's going to take 32 weeks to get our actual certificate. Blah. I think that we are going to go up to Toronto, I've been there before, and I liked it.
It all just pisses me off that we even have to go through this much bullshit. It shouldn't be this difficult. We love each other, want to be together, why does it have to be so complicated?
And, I know that it sounds a bit old fashioned, but I'd really like to be married before we have a child. Not that our child could ever think that he or she was an accident, considering all of the other work that we have to go through for them, but still, it just soothes me a bit. One of the things that always gave me peace when I was a kid was knowing that my mom and dad got married before she got pregnant with me.
I'm starting to yawn... Time to go look for Dr.'s now.


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Oct. 14th, 2004 06:04 am (UTC)
Question - which of you would carry the child?
Oct. 14th, 2004 12:06 pm (UTC)
Me first. And then she will carry one as well, in a few years. We'd like to use the same donor, so that our children will be siblings.
Oct. 16th, 2004 04:38 pm (UTC)
I have been looking into the same things, as i plan to move to CA to raise a family. Can both (same gendered) parents be on the birth certificate there?
ps ive added you
Oct. 14th, 2004 10:47 am (UTC)
i'm off for a week mid november for thanksgiving.
just an option.
good luck dollface. thinking of you, loving you.
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